What Is Gaslighting And How To Know When It’s Been Done To You.
It’s more common than you think. “I never said that.” “You’re crazy.” “You need to learn to take a joke.” Gaslighting is often explained in the context of a romantic, narcissistic relationship dynamic. However, gaslighters are EVERYWHERE. Since becoming more aware...
12 Tactics Narcissists Use To Manipulate You.
When you learn the signs of manipulation, the joke’s on them! There are people who will casually walk up to you and smile as they take your hand and warmly greet you. They will act as if they love you and pretend to be your loving family or best friend. But in...
6 Ways You Make Yourself An Easy Target For Narcissists
Heal the parts of you that make you vulnerable to manipulation. Narcissists and sociopaths have an inbuilt radar that detects precisely who will fall for their tricks. They observe you closely and do subtle little tests to gauge your reaction. Some people find...
How to Spot a Psychopath
Hint: It’s not just in the eyes. I knew something was off that very first day. I was looking to rent a small, furnished cottage which was attached to the main house of a coastal property. It ticked all the boxes yet it had a strange smell I found off-putting....
9 Signs You Grew Up in a Narcissistic Family
Hint: The Black Sheep is the only one telling the truth. In a narcissistic family, image is everything. Nothing less than blind loyalty is demanded of you. But what if your family is deliberately hurting you? What if that loyalty hasn’t been earned? The devastating...
11 Signs You Are Dealing With A Covert Narcissist.
They’re not as easy to spot as overt narcissists. Have you ever thought you had something all sussed out - only to find yourself making exactly the same mistake? I’d been single for a year and a half and was feeling confident that I was ready to start dating again....
When is a friendship over?
11 Signs your friendships are 1-sided. I was super excited to visit my old friend and work colleague. I had not seen her since she had moved out of town. I was looking forward to seeing her new home and how her children had grown over the past year. I sang along to...
How the narcissist damages your health.
Is your relationship making you physically sick? When my nine month lease finally expired, I looked haggard. I felt like the character on the Nine of Wands Tarot card. Fine lines had sprung up around my eyes and lips and my neck looked crepey. I looked at my...
Fake Healers are Real.
How to Spot Spiritual Narcissists and Keep your Own Ego in Check. Intention is everything. If your intention is to be of service to others and to make a positive difference in the world, then you are probably coming from a good place. If you are self-serving, then...